Tips to Help Your Kids Be Ready for Fall Photos – 11 Sanity-Saving Tricks for Parents


Fall in Orange County is just pure magic. Between the golden sunsets, the cozy textures, and colorful backdrops, there’s a natural warmth that can be captured in every frame. As the air cools and the trees start to change, the season creates the perfect atmosphere to capture your growing family.


But if you’re a parent, you know that the beauty of those photos also comes with a real challenge: getting the kids to actually cooperate for the camera. Don’t worry, love. I’ve got you. With a little planning, patience, and the right mindset, your fall photo session can be just as beautiful as you imagined.



Start with the Right Expectations

When you tell your kids you have a photo session, keep in mind that they have no idea what you’re talking about! They’ve never met me, they’ve never seen a professional camera, and they’re going to be in a brand new place. 


All of these factors combined could cause your kiddo to feel overwhelmed, especially if they’re on the shyer side. My own children range from being loud and rambunctious, to shy and easily overstimulated. My experiences as a mom and former kinder-teacher have helped me work with kids of all ages and find ways to help them feel comfortable and safe. 


This is my tried-and-true list of do’s and don’ts to help your kids feel calm, confident, and ready for a fun, relaxed fall photo session.




Family enjoying a warm sunset together in a meadow wearing coordinated casual outfits in light blue and grey tones.

DO: Tell the Kids Ahead of Time

Give them about a week’s notice. That way, the idea isn’t a surprise, and they have time to get used to it.


DON’T: Bring Toys for Toddlers (18m-3y)

Even though a toy might comfort them, they often won’t want to let it go once they have it. If you do bring one, choose something neutral and photo-friendly to match your aesthetic like a Montessori-style train or soft beige stuffed animal.


DO: Use Familiar, Reassuring Language

Try saying something like:


“You know how mommy has lots of pictures of us on her phone? Well, I want to have pictures of our whole family! So we’re going to go to a park and play and snuggle and cuddle, and a photographer is going to take pictures of our family. Her name is Miss Bethany!”


Framing it this way helps them hear “play with mommy” instead of “photoshoot.” They’ll know that they get to stay with you the whole time and I’m more of a side character! 

Family enjoying a warm sunset together in a meadow wearing coordinated casual outfits in light blue and grey tones.

DON’T: Use Messy Candy As A Bribe

Avoid brightly colored snacks or candies as they tend to smear faces, stain fingers, and leave marks on outfits. Stick to mess-free options if you need a little treat.


DO: Show Them Pictures of Me and My Kids

Take a quick visit to my website and show them a picture of me and my kids! Knowing what I look like and seeing that I’m a mom myself takes away an unknown that could be scary for some kids.


DON’T: Expect Them to Follow Directions Perfectly

​​They’re kids! New environments, sounds, and people can make anyone feel a little off. They’ll probably get distracted by something they see or they may just feel nervous around a new person. Instead of correcting them when they’re not listening, try distracting them by engaging them.

For example, instead of saying “hey stop grabbing the flower, get up let’s go you need to smile!” try getting on their level and saying something like “hey, you found a flower! Wow, what color is it? Can you put it in my hand? Can you smell it?” This gives me a really sweet, authentic moment of connection for me to capture! And from there you can give your baby a hug or a kiss, pick them up, and now everyone is happy and ready for another shot!

Family enjoying a warm sunset together in a meadow wearing coordinated casual outfits in light blue and grey tones.

DO: Explore My Instagram Together

Go to my instagram and show them pictures of other families with kids laughing and playing! Explain that you’ll be able to play, take a walk, and snuggle on a blanket while I take pictures with my camera. You can even show them what a camera looks like! 


If you have older children, take a few minutes and show them the kind of moments you’re hoping I capture. Having a visual will give them a clear idea of what’s expected! 


DO: Make A Playlist in Advance

Pick a few favorite songs ahead of time that your kids love! If they’re having trouble loosening up, I’ll play the songs for you to dance to together or just have on in the background.

Family enjoying a warm sunset together in a meadow wearing coordinated casual outfits in light blue and grey tones.

What to Bring to Your Fall Photo Session


Here’s your go-to checklist:

  • Water & snacks
  • Hairbrush or wipes for quick cleanups
  • Backup clothes (just in case)
  • Layers (sweater, jacket, blanket)
  • Tissues or wipes


Bonus tip: Bring a neutral-colored blanket or throw for sitting poses in the leaves.

FAQs: Preparing Kids for Fall Family Photo

hat should we do if our child has a meltdown during the session?

Take a break! We’ll pivot, play, and come back when they’re ready.

Can we bring our dog?

bsolutely! Just let me know ahead of time so we can choose a pet-friendly location.

Do I need to bring props or toys?

Only if they add comfort or meaning for your child. No need to overpack.

Should we tell our kids to smile?

No need! I’ll get them laughing naturally through games and conversation.

What happens if someone gets dirty or messy?

No problem at all, just make sure to pack backup clothes!

How long will the session last?

Typically 45–60 minutes. Long enough for variety but short enough for young attention spans.